Childhood is the most sensitive phase of life. Whatever a child perceives from his environment directly influence his behaviour. Apposite direction and discretion can be discovered in this stage . Like bubbles arise in boiling water perhaps similarly thoughts and also questions arise in a child's mind. An ingenious direction can be given to his thoughts through pertinent guidance. What is life?What should be the greatest motive of this life?such queries can be clarified. Children are highly anxious to know about their immediate surroundings.What is right?What is wrong?Why right? and Why wrong? such questions frequently arise in a child's mind.Absence of a reasonable guidance is like a curse for a child.
Parents play a pivotal role in delivering proper guidance to their children. Initially a child more or less wholly depends on his parents. So, it is necessary for the parents to have at least that much of matureness that they can bring maturity in their offsprings. Being physically eligible to give birth to a child is totally different from the concept of internal maturity. Experience and behaviour are like two sides of the same coin and both of them together upgrade one's internality. A child can be blessed with all round development through this path.
To answer the questions of a child, parents first should have great analysing power. Like why a child is asking such questions and what kind of answer he needs? So that, they can answer the question according to the child's retention power. But most of the time the questions of children are ignored by parents.Parents should have the view that this life is meant to live highly and not to spend. The thrust for real knowledge is essential to live. A child should not be considered as a raw material which has to be processed in an educational institution to become a useful product rather a child should be considered as a tiny seed which can grow into a huge tree through adequate supervision. So, that tree can add oxygen like values to others life, can serve this society like nutritious foods and can endow shelter to others in his huge heart.
A trend is floating amongst today's generation that whatever makes you happy just do that without evaluating the level of that work and it's outcomes. But, sadly most of the people even don't know about the real definition of happiness.According to them instant pleasure, laughing faces etc. are the signs of happiness. But, these things not even exist in the dictionary of happiness in real. Happiness is a scenic emotion which can emphasis us to smile and only smiling faces are not the definition of happiness. Smile can become a part of that scenic emotion. The actual happiness when comes to one's life it also brings serenity as well as sublimity. Otherwise there is no difference between a serial killer and a saint. The reason is because both them are doing their job to attain happiness. Thus, the level of work should be enumerated. If a work sincerely building one's character strong, if a work genuinely enhancing one's originality and if a work consistently taking one's life towards truth then that work should be done definitely with devotion.
Now-a-days our generation extremely needs a proper guidance. They are searching the most precious thing throughout the world. But they are unaware that they have the most immaculate and an invaluable thing inside them and that is their pure souls. Once they start getting aware of that ,then they can shine like stars.
By
Chayanika Dani
(I am Chayanika Dani. I am always ardent to disseminate my empire of creativity.I strongly believe that any pertinent endeavour which is done without sticking any anticipation to consequences is equivalent to the purest supplication to God.I love to dive into my thoughtful mind and also love to fabricate those thoughts in the form of scenic words. Every-time this process endows me ultimate serenity)
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