Breaking down Girl drama

 “Understanding the Not-So-Friendly Side of Female Friendships Today”

Introduction:
In the world of girls hanging out, it's not always rainbows and butterflies. We're diving into the real talk – the drama that sneaks into friendships between girls nowadays. Instead of being each other's biggest fans, sometimes girls end up being, well, not so friendly. This article peeks into why that happens. From feeling jealous to being in some kind of competition, we're unravelling the mess in the friendships of today's girls. So, let's get real about the not-so-cool side of being a girl in this generation.

Toxicity in the Mix:
Picture this: girls aiming to be friends, but something's off. Toxic vibes sneak in – maybe it's jealousy or just not feeling good enough. In a world where we're supposed to support each other, it's weird when some girls end up not being each other's cheerleaders. Why does this happen?

Jealousy and Stuff:
So, there's this thing about wanting what someone else has, and girls aren't immune to it. Jealousy creeps in, making it hard for genuine friendships to flourish. When girls start feeling like they're in competition with each other, things can get messy real quick.

Fake Friends Alert:
Sometimes, people wear a mask, pretending to be something they're not. Girls might act all friendly, but underneath, it's a different story. Spotting fake friends isn't always easy, and when they're around, the trust in the friendship circle can take a hit.

The Male Attention Factor:
Okay, let's talk about guys. Seeking attention from guys sometimes turns into a competition among girls. Instead of supporting each other, it becomes more about getting noticed. This shift can create tension and negatively impact how girls relate to each other.

When Things Go South:
Imagine this – girls who were once tight friends suddenly split ways. What comes next? Backbiting, character shaming, and maybe even some gossip. It's like a breakup, but with friends. The aftermath can be full of drama, leaving both parties hurt and the friendship in ruins.

Stepping Away from Toxicity:
So, how do girls move on from the messiness? It starts with recognizing the toxic stuff, respecting each other's space, and ditching the drama. Moving away from the negativity opens up space for genuine connections to flourish.

Mutual Support – The Game Changer:
But hold up, it's not all doom and gloom. Imagine a world where girls have each other's backs no matter what. Supporting one another, celebrating successes, and lifting each other during tough times – that's the real deal. When girls choose mutual support over competition, the vibe becomes way more positive.

Girl Code:
Let's set some standards, shall we? Classy girls keep it real. They respect others, they're not into tearing people down, and they know the importance of a genuine smile and a kind word. It's not about being perfect, but about being true to themselves and others.

The Power of One Girl Supporting Another:
Ever seen what happens when girls genuinely support each other? It's magical. Achievements are celebrated, and challenges are faced together. The power of one girl backing up another can transform not only their friendship but the entire community.

Conclusion:
In the world of girl friendships, there's a lot going on. It's not always smooth sailing, but it doesn't have to be stormy either. Recognizing toxicity, choosing support over competition, and building a circle of genuine connections – that's the way forward. Girls can rewrite the script, turning friendships into sources of strength and joy, breaking free from the drama that sometimes tags along. It's all about keeping it real and embracing the power of positive connections.

By
Vaibhavi Shetty

(In the vibrant landscape of Karnataka, I'm a passionate teenager weaving a rich blend of emotions and creativity into my writing. Exploring profound philosophical musings, societal intricacies, and the captivating dance of human behavior, my words resonate with the timeless beauty of nature.  Beyond the written canvas, my artistic journey extends to vivid paintings and intricate sketches, each stroke telling a story. Navigating the maze of life, I aspire to make my mark in the field of writing, aiming to carve out a unique niche where my voice resonates with authenticity and depth. Through my diverse expressions of creativity, I don't merely seek to express but to provoke thought, inspire dialogue, and foster connections. I believe each written piece and stroke of the brush is a step towards creating a legacy, a testament to the power of storytelling and the visual arts in shaping the world around me)

Limitless

 It looked huge before me, a rugged, dusty, dark obstruction to anything that I wanted to see on the other side. I looked too tiny in front of it before I decided to climb. Is it worth it I asked myself. What if I decide to stop half way through. Will it not be a waste of time and energy that I spent on reaching half way . Will it be sensible to come back , maybe easier and faster. What if I went slow and climbed up. It would be great to see and know what everyone cannot see if they do not put in this effort. This tiny me decided it climb and it was an effort that seemed to take away a lot of me with it. I realise how difficult it is to climb a mountain but it was not impossible. Cuts, bruises, sprains and pains were my companion. But the curiosity to see what was up there kept me going. Finally I lost track of time , I just kept going up whenever I looked back and realised how far I had reached. I was just there and here I was scaling a height in life which was great for me. It was worth the effort as what I did see was not for everyone, mesmerising, enchanting and so beautiful. But what made me more happy was that today this tiny me had the mountain beneath myself. It was not me looking up at it but it was the mountain that was now holding me above itself. The mountain is just there but it is you who rises.

I was in love with the waters but only from a distance. It looked so calm yet I could feel there was something that disturbed it that it wanted to share. Every time the waves came up to me as if to tell me what it was but I would move back in fright and so it did too. I was told there is a quiet dark world below , beautiful to see but I could not gather myself to dive deep in till one day my curiosity gave in and I decided to travel in the depths of the water to see the remnants of a story that once could be talking about the voyage it took but now lay scattered , untold and unexplored. I understood what stays calm at times comes up to tell you what it hides only if you are ready to listen.

The sky is the limit they say but this limit is endless. The higher you go you feel there is something over me which I haven't yet reached. Each one of us wants to reach heights but what if a little elevation scares you. Looking down at things gives you palpitations. Yet you want to be free like a bird. You want to fly free and want the entire sky to yourself. A little push is all it takes to know what it feels to fly free. When you fly, when you glide, when you just jump holding the colourful canopy, you feel the real meaning of flying free. It takes a lot of courage , a lot of strength, a lot of effort and maneuvering to reach up there. Only those who work hard and trust their abilities reach the height in life.

So be it climbing the mountains, be it diving into the depth of the sea or flying free like a bird, it is only you who can work on yourself to reach. There is so much to explore, there is so much to see, do not set your boundaries, do not limit yourself. If you can give it a try , do take the first step. After all it is your life and life is meant to learn, explore, live and enjoy and is Limitless.

By 

Mansi Chaturvedi

(A published author of the book Shades of Solitude and e books on Shab.in called Spectrum and Bonsai. Mansi Chaturvedi is based in Kolkata and has her work published also on various platforms and by publishers like Excellent, Oxford, Shubharambh, Writersgram, Ekta, Hatchhegg Publications and also got articles published in blogs of e-magazines like Unicorn, The Beautiful Mind, Metonia and Namya. She connects globally through her blog Pennedconnections on WordPress.com and has her podcast Livewire on Spotify and Anchor.)